A.N.G.E.R. S.M.A.R.T. is the 1st anger management system to use "solutions" to control anger and aggression instead of focusing on your "problems."

Problem Experts:

You are already an expert on your problems. You know what anger and aggression has done to you and your family. Has this knowledge helped you control it? I didn't think so. Focusing on your problems will only help you understand where you've been. It can never tell you where you need to go or how to change it. What you need are solutions to your problems!

Now I don't want to invalidate the painful experiences you might have suffered in your life that have led you to be angry. Those were very real experiences. I also don't want to pretend you haven't hurt other people in your life with your anger. We have to take responsibility for our actions. I simply want to help you focus on what works, instead of doesn't work, when it comes to anger.

One way to help you focus on solutions instead of problems is to think of a time when anger did not control your life! Remember a time when anger was not the main character in your life story. What was different about this time versus times when anger was present? How were you different? How do other people in your life act? Be specific. If someone walked in and observed you without anger what would he or she see you saying or doing?

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